"If you allow your self worth to be based on what other people think of you, it's the beginning of the end"

Before you do anything else and if you haven't already, watch this really inspirational video by Tyrese Gibson talking about self love and self worth.

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"The day that you start living your life according to everyone else's opinion, is the beginning of the end."

There is truth in Tyrese's words. How many of us go through life with that view? We dress well because we're afraid that people will judge us if we don't. We talk with an accent or use words that we don't even understand because we think that it'll make us sound better, more classy, or smarter.

But the truth? None of that matters. 

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."-Dr. Seuss

Have you ever looked at someone who was confident with themselves and thought,"I wish I could be as confident as her/him"? The truth is: you can.
We are our biggest enemy. We see ourselves a certain way, most times with disgust and disappointment because we think that the way we look isn't the way that society deems "acceptable." Newsflash: beautiful hair, being skinny, having the latest clothes and the newest iPhone 6 does not make you better than the person next to you. That's just what the materialistic world is trying to convince you but don't buy into it.

You are worth something. You are beautiful. You are strong. And you are valuable.

Just because someone says you're not doesn't make it so. Don't make those negative comments speak over your life. If you think you're cool and you're awesome, then you are. If someone says that you're not, that's just their opinion. Don't let it tear your own view of yourself down.

And for all you singles out there? If you don't love yourself first, how can you expect to love another? The day that you start loving yourself and being who you truly want to be, they'll find you. Stop chasing after that girl/guy in hopes that they can fill that empty void that you feel. Because what happens if it doesn't work out? You'll feel empty again. Invest in yourself. Become the person that you were meant to be. Fill that void with God, with love, with things that make you who you are. No one can take your happiness away from you if you don't let them because you are responsible for your own happiness.

How many of us have been sucked into the social media whirlpools? Where we base popularity and coolness on how many likes you get on a photo or how many "friends" and followers you have. Put down the phones, turn off the computers. Pick up a book, go outside, explore the world that it out there. Don't feed this frenzy that is coming to plague our generation. Is this all there is left to life? What life are we living if we're all "living" it online. Don't waste your life.

And for those of you that are lost, don't fret. It's not over yet, you can't give up right now. Jesus said that He is the way, the truth, and the life. I believe that He has a plan for every single one of us and no matter the wrongs you have done and the mistakes you have made, He still loves you and He will always love you, no matter what. Unconditional, selfless love.

 For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.-Jeremiah 29:11-13 NLT

Today, I challenge you. I challenge you to put down the views of this world that you have adopted that say that you should dress a certain way or be who you're not.  I challenge you to seek God. I challenge you to go after your dreams, to speak your mind and to be heard. But most of all, I challenge you to start loving yourself every single day and to never forget that you are precious. 

The world needs change, but it starts with you.

Today, everything changes.

Start now.

Be blessed,
Sarah
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